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Ethical Non-Monogamy Discussion Group
House of Black · San Diego, CA
ETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP This discussion group is open to anyone who is curious about or already active in a consensual non-monogamous (ENM) lifestyle including open relationships, swinging, multiple D/s dynamics, and polyamory (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo poly...) Struggles in ENM relationships often grow out of unclear expectations, passive communication, and a resistance to being accountable for your own emotions. This group is intended to be a resource for understanding and participating in these lifestyles from an emotionally healthy lens, for exorcising mononormative cultural conditioning, and ultimately engaging in personal growth. Expect to be challenged on issues of codependence, boundaries v rules, radical honesty, and others. THIS WEEK'S TOPIC Every horror movie has the same lesson: the thing you refuse to look at is the thing that gets you. This October, we’re looking. Ethical non-monogamy comes with real fears, and most of us carry them quietly. What if they like someone else better? What if I’m the only one having a hard time? What if opening up breaks something we can’t fix? This month, we’re dragging those fears into the candlelight, where they tend to look a lot smaller. What we’ll get into Things that go bump in the night. The fears that keep us up: being replaced, being left behind, being “too much” or “not enough.” We’ll sort the ones that are trying to tell you something from the ones that are just rattling chains. Bad ghouls. Everyone has met one. The date who “forgot” to mention their partner didn’t know. The couple with rules that only applied to you. The charmer who was all trick and no treat. Bring your tales of red flags you spotted, and the ones you spotted three months too late. YOUR HOSTS JnPplay Patty and Jon have been navigating the wild, wonderful world of Ethical Non-Monogamy for 30 years—and they’re here to share the ups, downs, and all the juicy in-betweens! Married for 28 years and currently thriving in a poly quad, they’ve explored everything from polyamory to swinging to BDSM with an open heart and a healthy dose of curiosity. Patty, who’s diving into the depths of psychology, loves unpacking relationship dynamics and the magic of meaningful connections. Jon is equally passionate about fostering trust, communication, and an inclusive space where people can be their most authentic selves. Together, they support sex positivity, LGBTQIA+ advocacy, and the belief that honesty, respect, and a dash of fun make for the best conversations. Whether you’re new to ENM or a seasoned adventurer, their discussion group is a judgment-free zone where real talk happens, insights are shared, and laughter is always welcome. Come join the conversation, swap stories, and celebrate the beautiful, unconventional paths that make life exciting!
BDSM NIGHT - BROOMSTICK BASH
House of Black & More · San Diego, CA
Step into the shadows for BDSM Night: Broomstick Bash 🧹✨, a spellbinding evening of witchcraft, sorcery, and scene play at the House of Black & More 🖤. Step into our sanctuary where dark magic meets high-intensity play, bringing your deepest fantasies to life alongside fellow practitioners, familiars, witches, and warlocks 🧙♀️🔮. WHAT TO EXPECT 🕯️ Bring your most enchanting scenes to life in our custom-designed, fully equipped play spaces ⛓️. Channel your inner sorcerer, conjure unique dynamics, and witness our featured demo showcasing the art and sensation of Broomstick Impact Play 🧹💥. When you need to catch your breath, step away from the altars of play to mingle with fellow creatures of the night in our dedicated lounge area or under the open sky on the patio 🌙. Decadent hors d'oeuvres will be served throughout the evening to keep your energy high as the magic unfolds 🍇🥂. Please note that House of Black is a strict dry event 🚫🍷 to prioritize safety, sobriety, and informed consent during all scene work. SCHEDULE & TIMELINE ⏰ 8:00 PM – 9:00 PM | Newbie Orientation & Tour 🗝️ If this is your first time crossing our threshold, arrive early for a guided facility tour 🚪. We will walk you through venue etiquette, review safety rules, answer any questions, and get you fully settled in for your first event. 9:00 PM | Mandatory Announcements & Featured Demo 📢 Gather in the main space as we review community rules, dynamic etiquette, and announce the night's highlights, including our featured Broomstick Impact Play demonstration 🔮. 11:00 PM | Doors Close 🔒 Doors lock strictly at 11:00 PM with no late entry and no in-and-out privileges permitted afterward 🚫. No refunds or credits will be issued for late arrivals or non-attendance 🎟️. DRESS CODE 🖤👗 Dress to enchant and impress! Show off your spellbinding style with witchy accents, familiar-inspired looks, wizardly gear, classic leather, latex, corsets, high-end fetish attire, or dark alternative wear 🗝️🖤. Please ensure you remain street-legal and fully covered on your way to the venue until you are safely inside 🧥. CONSENT & ETIQUETTE 🤝⚖️ Respect, active consent, and open minds are the foundation of every House of Black event 🖤. A verbal YES is the only YES 🗣️ NO is a NO 🛑 MAYBE means NO 🛑 If someone changes their mind at any point, honor it immediately, and always use clear verbal boundaries when communicating your own limits 🎯. Keep casual socializing in the lounge and patio 🛋️, leaving play areas focused on active scenes ⛓️. Give other participants, their equipment, and their space room to breathe 🕯️. We welcome all identities, genders, dynamics, and styles of play, so remember to never yuck someone else's yum 🌈. House of Black staff members are on-site at all times—if you ever feel unsafe or need assistance, reach out to a staff member immediately 🆘. MEMBERSHIP & ADMISSION 📜 Due to California state legal requirements for events of this nature, membership is required for all attendees ⚖️. This event is strictly curated for members of the kink, BDSM, and fetish communities 🖤. WHAT IS HOUSE OF BLACK? 🏰✨ House of Black is owned by Goddess Fae Black 👑, a female bi-sexual LS Kinkster who has a passion for providing a sexy space for people to indulge in their fantasies! We have several volunteer staff members and are always looking for more people who want to get involved in our member community 🤝. House of Black is a Members Lifestyle & Kink Club 🗝️ which features 7 uniquely styled rooms 🚪, a lounge area 🛋️, 2 bathrooms (w/shower) 🚿, and a large private outdoor balcony 🌙. We host sex positive parties, workshops, discussion groups, game nights & more! 🎉 House of Black is also availble for Rentals 🔑...It is also available for rent for your own private playtime or sexy photoshoot 📸. CONTACT US 💌 Email: info@houseofblack.com 📧 if you'd like to hear more about volunteering or have any questions. Rentals: Please text 8587519433 📱 the following info: First & Last Name if each individual that will be included in the rental? 📛 (We do check ID at the door, names must match ID, must be 21+) 🆔🔞 Date, Start Time, & How Many Hours? 📅⏰ Which Room(s) or Whole Facility? 🚪🏰 What is the Purpose of Your Rental? ❓ How did you hear about House of Black? 💭
KINK ED & LAB - TOPIC: Witchy Impact & Fear Play
House of Black & More · San Diego, CA
THIS MONTH'S TOPIC WITCHY IMPACT & FEAR PLAY TAUGHT BY VALKYRIE This educational session explores the blend of witchy-themed impact play and the psychological thrills of fear play. Whether you are curious about incorporating themed implements, managing adrenaline, or safely negotiating intense psychological edge-play, this class offers a grounded space to learn technique, safety, consent dynamics, and impact methods. Schedule of the Evening... 7:00PM: Arrive, put your stuff in a locker, check in with greeter for next steps 7:30PM: DOORS CLOSE AT 7:30PM. No In & Out Priveleges After 7:30PM. 7:30-10PM: Discussions, Demo, Workshop 10PM-11:00PM: Open Practice Portion ***If you want to stay for the open practice portion you will need to sign up as a member now to do so.*** Additional Event Details... HORS D'OEUVRES will be provided to keep your energy up throughout the evening WHAT DO WE WEAR?!? Anything from streetwear, to fetishwear. Whatever you feel comfortable learning in, and exploring in. Kinky and comfy encouraged. Please keep it street legal to the door. WHO IS KINK-LAB FOR? Anyone with an approved HoB profile, who's interested in that topic. HoB classes are typically taught at the beginning and intermediate level, and the goal is to dive into a topic in a way that will benefit all attendees. All classes include a consent and negotiation component. Come nerd out about kinky topics with us! DRY EVENT to provide a SAFER SPACE for BDSM scenes. CONSENT, RESPECT, & AN OPEN MIND ARE KEY AT HOUSE OF BLACK Yes is a Yes, NO is a NO, Maybe is a NO, if someone changes their mind they will let you know! Please make sure to give a CLEAR VERBAL NO when you do NOT want to do something with someone. There are many different types of people, dynamics, genders, and styles of play at HoB, don't yuck anyone else's yum! Our Staff is available to make sure you feel safe so please don't hesitate to use them as a resource. **Membership for practice/play portion is required due to legal rules in the state of California for events of this nature.** WHAT IS HOUSE OF BLACK? House of Black is owned by Goddess Fae Black, a female bi-sexual LS Kinkster who has a passion for providing a sexy space for people to indulge in their fantasies! We have several volunteer staff members and are always looking for more people who want to get involved in our member community. House of Black is a Members Lifestyle & Kink Club which features 7 uniquely styled rooms, a lounge area, 2 bathrooms (w/shower), and a large private outdoor balcony. We host sex positive parties, workshops, discussion groups, game nights & more! House of Black is also availble for Rentals...It is also available for rent for your own private playtime or sexy photoshoot. CONTACT US Email: info@houseofblack.com if you'd like to hear more about volunteering or have any questions. Rentals: Please text 8587519433 the following info: First & Last Name if each individual that will be included in the rental? (We do check ID at the door, names must match ID, must be 21+) Date, Start Time, & How Many Hours? Which Room(s) or Whole Facility? What is the Purpose of Your Rental? How did you hear about House of Black? XO,
SEXY SPOOKY CONTENT CREATION NIGHT
House of Black & More · San Diego, CA
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HoB Meet & Greet
KILOWATT BREWERY-KEARNY MESA · San Diego, CA
✨ Ready to Spark Something New? Join Us at the House of Black & More Meet N Greet! Whether you’ve been turning heads in our circle for years or you’re brand new and dying to see what the buzz is about, consider this your official invite to step into the spotlight! It’s time to Mingle, Connect, and Flirt 🍻😏 House of Black & More is taking over Kilowatt Brewing in Kearny Mesa for an evening full of electric chemistry, ice-cold craft brews, and effortless vibes. Sip on something refreshing, catch a lingering glance across the room, and let the night take its course. We are gathering on Wednesday, October 7th at 6:00 PM at Kilowatt Brewing – Kearny Mesa, located at 7576 Clairemont Mesa Blvd, San Diego, CA 92111. If you are a brand-new member, there is zero reason to feel shy! This is the ultimate low-pressure, high-fun way to dip your toes in the water, meet our welcoming organizers, break the ice with friendly faces, and instantly feel right at home 💋✨ For our returning regulars, you already know how we do it! Come show off that captivating smile, catch up with your favorite people, and spark new connections with fresh energy in the room 🔥💃 Everyone can look forward to ambient craft brewery vibes, delicious drinks, real conversations, and just the right amount of playful heat in the air 🍹⚡ 📲 Don't stay on the fence—spots fill up fast! RSVP and lock in your spot. We’ll have a drink waiting and a seat saved just for you 😉✨ XO,
Traffic Light Party
House of Black & More · San Diego, CA
🚦 TRAFFIC LIGHT PARTY: Ready, Set, Go! 🚦 Welcome to HOB's Traffic Light Party! To help everyone navigate the night smoothly, you’ll select a combination of colored wristbands (provided by us) at the door to indicate your play style and preferences. 🔄 Flexibility is key: You are always welcome to change your wristbands throughout the evening if your mood or mindset shifts! 1. Choose Your Play Style 🔴 Red: Voyeur / Observing 🟡 Yellow: Soft Swap 🟢 Green: Full Swap ⚫ Black: Kink / BDSM ⚪ White: Exploring / Undecided 2. Choose Your Preferred Play Partners 💗 Pink: Female-only play 💙 Blue: Male-only play 💜 Purple: Couples / Male & Female play 🌈 Rainbow: All-gender play 💡 Example: Goddess Fae is attending with her husband, Trey. She is open to full swap and BDSM, and wants to play with both men and women. She will wear Black, Green, and Purple wristbands. 🕒 Event Schedule & Timeline 8:00 PM – 9:00 PM | Social Hour Arrive early, grab a drink, mingle, and get to know your fellow members! 9:00 PM | Announcements & Play Kickoff Essential etiquette, rules, and a rundown of the night's sexy activities and live demos. Do not miss this! 11:00 PM | Doors Close Strict lockout applies. No late entry and no in/out privileges after 11:00 PM. Our door staff are volunteers who deserve to enjoy the party too, so please respect their time and arrive early! 🥂 Amenities & Hospitality BYOB: Bring your favorite alcohol! We happily provide mixers, sodas, and water. Please remember to show some love and tip your bartender. Hors D'oeuvres: Light bites will be provided throughout the night to keep your energy up. 👗 Dress Code: Dress to Impress! Get creative and sexy! We welcome cocktail attire, lingerie, corsets, bodysuits, leather, latex, or upscale underwear. Please arrive covered up in regular street clothes or a jacket so we can remain discreet outside the venue building. 🔑 Important Membership Info YOU MUST BE A MEMBER TO ATTEND. Due to California state regulations regarding events of this nature, official membership is strictly required for entry. Tickets are non-refundable for non-members or late arrivals. WHAT IS HOUSE OF BLACK? House of Black is owned by Goddess Fae Black, a female bi-sexual LS Kinkster who has a passion for providing a sexy space for people to indulge in their fantasies! We have several volunteer staff members and are always looking for more people who want to get involved in our member community. House of Black is a Members Lifestyle & Kink Club which features 7 uniquely styled rooms, a lounge area, 2 bathrooms (w/shower), and a large private outdoor balcony. We host sex positive parties, workshops, discussion groups, game nights & more! House of Black is also availble for Rentals...It is also available for rent for your own private playtime or sexy photoshoot. CONTACT US Email: info@houseofblack.com if you'd like to hear more about volunteering or have any questions. Rentals: Please text 8587519433 the following info: First & Last Name if each individual that will be included in the rental? (We do check ID at the door, names must match ID, must be 21+) Date, Start Time, & How Many Hours? Which Room(s) or Whole Facility? What is the Purpose of Your Rental? How did you hear about House of Black? XO,
A Black Tie Affair - A Night of Rope Education
House of Black · San Diego, CA
A BLACK TIE AFFAIR A Rope Practice Hosted by: Shel Educators: Talented Mr Jay & bunny Black Tie Affair is a skills-based class designed for all levels on a rotating basis. Whether you're a beginner or an intermediate, everyone can sharpen their technique. The evening includes a short intro on consent and behavior. The bulk of the class is focused on a specific rope skill with guided practice, and it ends with dedicated practice time. Additionally HoB members can stay to rope jam through the evening. DETAILS WHO: Rope enthusiasts wanting to practice skills & those wanting share knowledge with other bondage enthusiasts ARRIVE: 7PM-7:30PM BRING: Rope, safety scissors, & your own mat to sit on (If you have them) WEAR: Something comfortable. No wires... bras can be iffy Meet Your Instructors: Talented Mr Jay and bunny The Talented Mr. Jay and bunny are rope enthusiasts who have been creating wickedly playful rope bondage together for the past three years. They regularly attend rope events in the San Diego and LA area. They have learned rope from some of the greatest Shibari masters in the world, including Kinoko, Kazami, Kanna, Kirigami, Odys, Hua Hua and many many more. With over 20 years of combined education and experience, they have taught shibari at House of Black, Devil Mask Studio, as well as other private and public venues. WHAT IS HOUSE OF BLACK? House of Black is owned by Goddess Fae Black, a female bi-sexual LS Kinkster who has a passion for providing a sexy space for people to indulge in their fantasies! We have several volunteer staff members and are always looking for more people who want to get involved in our member community. House of Black is a Members Lifestyle & Kink Club which features 7 uniquely styled rooms, a lounge area, 2 bathrooms (w/shower), and a large private outdoor balcony. We host sex positive parties, workshops, discussion groups, game nights & more! House of Black is also availble for Rentals...It is also available for rent for your own private playtime or sexy photoshoot. CONTACT US Email: info@houseofblack.com if you'd like to hear more about volunteering or have any questions. Rentals: Please text 8587519433 the following info: First & Last Name if each individual that will be included in the rental? (We do check ID at the door, names must match ID, must be 21+) Date, Start Time, & How Many Hours? Which Room(s) or Whole Facility? What is the Purpose of Your Rental? How did you hear about House of Black? XO,
Sexy Game Night
House of Black & More · San Diego, CA
SEXY GAME NIGHT hosted by GuardiansOfDesire Ready to roll the dice on a night where curiosity meets attraction? Step into House of Black for an intimate, high-energy evening designed to spark effortless chemistry, playful competition, and just the right touch of thrill. Whether you are stepping through our doors solo or with a partner, this is your invitation to connect, flirt, and explore in a luxurious, judgment-free haven crafted for open minds and warm hearts. THE EVENING SCHEDULE 7:00 PM – 8:00 PM | Social Hour & Risqué Games Break the ice and loosen up with a curated selection of sassy card games and provocative board games. Feeling adventurous? We are adding optional, tantalizing strip-tease twists to elevate the stakes—always rooted in enthusiastic, explicit consent. It is the ultimate low-pressure way to laugh, mingle, and catch a spark. 8:00 PM – 10:00 PM | Open Playroom Access When the energy warms up, select playrooms open for guests ready to take the evening a step further. Move at your own rhythm, indulge your senses, or simply enjoy the captivating atmosphere. Every moment here is guided by your own comfort and desire—zero pressure, endless possibility. HOUSE RULES: THE CODE OF CONDUCT 1. Enthusiastic Consent Always An explicit, eager "Yes" is the only green light. Ask before you touch, respect every boundary instantly, and honor the fact that consent can be paused or changed at any second. 2. Absolute Respect & Discretion Treat our sanctuary, hosts, and fellow guests with total discretion. Honor everyone’s personal space, leave judgment at the door, and safeguard the privacy of everything that unfolds inside. 3. Positive, Low-Pressure Energy Bring your warmest, flirtiest, and most charming self. Leave expectations behind, embrace the playful vibes, and help us maintain an inviting atmosphere where everyone feels confident to express themselves. IMPORTANT EVENT DETAILS Atmosphere & Vibe Unwind in an exclusive, boutique setting that feels like a private club. It is the perfect atmosphere to meet like-minded singles and couples in a relaxed, intimacy-friendly space. BYOB 21+ Bring your favorite libations to sip throughout the night. We will provide premium mixers, ice, and delicious light bite-sized snacks to keep your energy high. Dress Code: Sexy Casual Dress to feel confident and magnetic. Think seductive denim, sleek loungewear, sheer accents, or open-collared shirts—whatever makes you feel hot, comfortable, and ready to play. RESERVE YOUR SPOT Because we prioritize intimacy and comfort, tickets are strictly limited to keep the room effortless and uncrowded. Don't leave your evening to chance—secure your tickets now before space runs out, and let us show you how unforgettable game night can be. WHAT IS HOUSE OF BLACK? House of Black is owned by Goddess Fae Black, a female bi-sexual LS Kinkster who has a passion for providing a sexy space for people to indulge in their fantasies! We have several volunteer staff members and are always looking for more people who want to get involved in our member community. House of Black is a Members Lifestyle & Kink Club which features 7 uniquely styled rooms, a lounge area, 2 bathrooms (w/shower), and a large private outdoor balcony. We host sex positive parties, workshops, discussion groups, game nights & more! House of Black is also availble for Rentals...It is also available for rent for your own private playtime or sexy photoshoot. CONTACT US Email: info@houseofblack.com if you'd like to hear more about volunteering or have any questions. Rentals: Please text 8587519433 the following info: First & Last Name if each individual that will be included in the rental? (We do check ID at the door, names must match ID, must be 21+) Date, Start Time, & How Many Hours? Which Room(s) or Whole Facility? What is the Purpose of Your Rental? How did you hear about House of Black?
Ethical Non-Monogamy Discussion Group
House of Black & More · San Diego, CA
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Start Here: A Newcomer’s Guide to ENM and House of Black ✨ 💖 Hosted by Jon & Patty (JnPplay) 💖 00Days 00Hours 00Mins 00Secs ✨ GET YOUR TICKET ✨ 💎 EXPLORING ENM FROM AN EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY LENS 💎 Open to anyone curious about or active in ethical non-monogamy (ENM) — including open relationships, swinging, multiple D/s dynamics, and polyamory (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo poly, and beyond)! Expect to be challenged on issues of codependence, boundaries vs. rules, radical honesty, and personal accountability! ⚡ THIS WEEK'S DISCUSSION ⚡ Nobody walks into ethical non-monogamy knowing what they’re doing. Everyone you’ll meet in this community once stood in a doorway wondering what the rules were, what the words meant, and whether they were the only ones in the room who felt nervous. They weren’t, and you aren’t either. 💋 This month, the ENM Discussion Group is rolling out the welcome mat! Whether you’ve been quietly curious for years, you and your partner just had “the conversation,” or you’ve been to a few events and still feel like you’re faking it — this evening was built specifically for you. ✨ 💖 WHAT WE WILL GET INTO... 💖 Starting Out What ENM actually is (and how swinging, polyamory, and open relationships differ), the conversations worth having before you open up, and why “we’ll figure it out as we go” is a plan with a short shelf life. The First-Year Survival Guide Boundaries versus rules, going at the pace of the slower partner, what to do when jealousy shows up uninvited, and the classic newbie mistakes our veterans made so you don’t have to. Navigating House of Black A club can be intimidating when you don’t know how it works. We’ll walk through what to expect on your first night here: house rules, how consent works in this space, reading the room, approaching someone (and saying “no, thank you” gracefully), and why it’s perfectly fine to just watch, mingle, and go home. The Question Box On your way in, drop an anonymous question on a card: the one you’re too embarrassed to ask out loud. We’ll pull them and the whole room will answer, with zero judgment and total privacy. Calling All Veterans! Come share the one thing you wish someone had told you on day one. Your hard-won lessons are the best welcome gift this community has. 💚 ✨ GET YOUR TICKET ✨ ✨ SANCTUARY ETIQUETTE & PRIVACY GUIDELINES ✨ Zero Pressure Experience There is absolutely no pressure to share. Listening counts as full participation, and you are welcome to engage at whatever level feels comfortable to you. Social & Educational Focus This is a structured discussion and social group — this is NOT a play event. Inclusive & Welcoming No experience required! All experience levels, solos, and couples are welcome. Know someone who’s been ENM-curious? This is the perfect night to bring them along. Absolute Confidentiality What is said in the room stays strictly in the room. Respecting everyone's privacy and personal journey is paramount. 💋 MEET YOUR HOSTS 💋 JnPplay (Patty & Jon) Patty and Jon have been navigating the wild, wonderful world of Ethical Non-Monogamy for 32 years — and they’re here to share the ups, downs, and all the juicy in-betweens! Married for 30 years and currently thriving in a poly quad, they’ve explored everything from polyamory to swinging to BDSM with an open heart and a healthy dose of curiosity. 🔥 Patty, who’s diving into the depths of psychology, loves unpacking relationship dynamics and the magic of meaningful connections. Jon is equally passionate about fostering trust, communication, and an inclusive space where people can be their most authentic selves. Together, they support sex positivity, LGBTQIA+ advocacy, and the belief that honesty, respect, and a dash of fun make for the best conversations. 💖 Whether you’re new to ENM or a seasoned adventurer, their discussion group is a judgment-free zone where real talk happens, insights are shared, and laughter is always welcome. Come join the conversation, swap stories, and celebrate the beautiful, unconventional paths that make life exciting! ✨ What Is House of Black? Owned by Goddess Fae Black House of Black & More is a premier, luxury private sanctuary designed for elite lifestyle events, kink education, and sensual exploration. Featuring 7 uniquely styled fantasy play rooms, an expansive plush lounge, a private outdoor balcony area, and full luxury shower amenities. Private Rentals & Photoshoots Looking to host your own private party or book a high-end fantasy photoshoot? 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HOLIDAY STUFFING CONTENT CREATION NIGHT
House of Black & More · San Diego, CA
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BLACK & BLUE FRIDAY
House of Black & More · San Diego, CA
< 🔥 EXCLUSIVE ADULT LIFESTYLE & KINK EVENT 🔥 BLACK AND BLUE FRIDAY 🖤⛓️💜 "Forget the Shopping Malls—Unwrap Your Craving for Pleasure & Pain" ✨😈 Hosted by House of Black & More 🗝️🍷 🍷 WELCOME TO THE SHADOWS 🖤 This Black Friday, trade the frantic consumer madness for a night of decadent surrender, wicked play, and high-energy kink 🛍️💥. Black and Blue Friday is your invitation to step into an intoxicating haven where sultry desire meets consensual impact ⛓️🔥. Whether you’re aching to feel the deep, thrilling thud of a leather paddle or itching to explore your most taboo fantasies in a plush, safe space, our sanctuary is warm, vibrant, and ready to welcome your wildest side 😈✨. Inside the opulent walls of House of Black & More, ambient mood lighting, heavy beats, and playful temptation set the stage 🕯️🎶. Expect an unforgettable evening overflowing with flirtatious encounters, expert-led demonstrations, stunning play areas, and a community of open-minded souls ready to play, connect, and leave their indelible marks 💜🖤. ⏰ SCHEDULE & TIMELINE ⏰ 8:00 PM – 9:00 PM | Newbie Orientation & Facility Tour 🗝️✨ First time visiting? Step inside early for an intimate facility walk-through, safety debrief, etiquette run-down, and cozy orientation to get you completely comfortable before the night heats up 🔥. 9:30 PM | Mandatory Announcements & Featured Demo 📢⛓️ All guests gather for essential community guidelines followed by an eye-opening live play demo featuring advanced impact technique & sensation arts 💥🎭. 11:00 PM | Doors Lock 🔒🚫 Strict locking policy in effect! Absolutely no in-and-out privileges, no late entry after 11:00 PM, and no refunds for late arrivals ⏳. Arrive early to secure your spot inside! 🖤👗 DRESS CODE 👠🖤 Theme: Sleek Leather & Fetish Chic ✨💋 Dress to impress, entice, and express! Think midnight black latex, lace corsets, straps & harnesses, dark velvet, sheer robes, high-shine vinyl, or seductive allure 🖤. Street clothes (jeans, casual t-shirts, sports attire) are strictly forbidden inside the main party space 🚫👕. ⚠️ STREET-LEGAL REMINDER: Please remain fully dressed in street-legal attire until safely inside the venue private changing rooms! 🚨 🤝⚖️ CONSENT & ETIQUETTE ⚖️🤝 Active, Enthusiastic Consent is MANDATORY & NON-NEGOTIABLE 💯✨ YES = YES | NO = NO | MAYBE = NO 🛑 Ask before touching anyone or their gear 🚫🖐️. Respect all play scenes in progress—never interrupt, touch equipment, or step into a scene uninvited 👀. Lounge Areas are for social flirting, conversations, and relaxing 🍸. Play Dungeon Areas are reserved exclusively for active scene work, impact, and kink ⛓️. We proudly welcome and celebrate all gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship dynamics (singles, couples, polycules, switches, tops, and bottoms) 🏳️🌈✨. House safety monitors and dungeon monitors are stationed throughout the night and easily identifiable if you ever need assistance 🛡️. 📜 MEMBERSHIP & ADMISSION NOTICE 📜 In strict compliance with California legal requirements for private social clubs, House of Black & More operates as a private, members-only organization 🏛️. All guests must be 21+ with valid government-issued ID 🆔. Active lifestyle/kink club membership or approved guest registration is required prior to ticket issue and entry 🎟️. Management reserves the right to deny entry to anyone not meeting venue standards. ARE YOU READY TO GET BLACK & BLUE? 😈🔥 Tickets are strictly limited to maintain privacy, intimacy, and comfort. Don't wait—claim your pass to the night! 🎟️✨ 🎟️ CLAIM YOUR PASS NOW 🗝️ WHAT IS HOUSE OF BLACK? 🏰🖤 Founded & Curated by Goddess Fae Black 👑✨ House of Black & More is California’s premier, state-of-the-art private kink and lifestyle facility 🍷. Spanning custom impact stations, St. Andrew's crosses, bondage benches, medical play setups, sensory dark rooms, and lavish social lounges 🛋️⛓️. Private Facility Rentals: Available for private shoots, workshops, and exclusive private parties 📸🗝️. 📧 CONTACT & REGISTRATION REQUIREMENTS Inquiries & Support: info@houseofblackandmore.com 📬 Mandatory SMS Registration: Text your full legal name & party size to (555) 839-2522 prior to arrival 📱. XO, © House of Black & More. All Rights Reserved. 21+ Only.
HOUSE OF BLACK & MORE | FANTASEA CRUISE
Fantasea Cruise - MargaritaVille Beachcomber · Miami, FL
CLICK -----> BOOK HERE Or scan the QR code to book! 🔥 Step Into the Shadows of Pleasure House of Black & More Returns to FantaSea Cruise 2027! 🔥 Back by popular demand, House of Black & More is officially sponsoring and hosting the second annual Kinky Playroom (aka The Dungeon) aboard the FantaSea Cruise, sailing February 13–19, 2027! Whether you’re an experienced player, a curious beginner, or an eager voyeur, we are setting sail to create an unforgettable sanctuary of sensation, exploration, and dynamic kink. 🌊 What Awaits You Onboard The Kinky Playroom (The Dungeon) Our dedicated, fully equipped play space. Come play, learn, connect, or simply watch and soak in the electric atmosphere in a safe, vetted, and inclusive space. Sensory Play Dinner A uniquely intimate dining experience designed to ignite your senses and elevate culinary pleasure to a whole new level. Interactive Workshops & Live Demos Skill up, broaden your horizons, and master new techniques throughout the voyage. Exclusive Private Sessions One-on-one tailored experiences designed specifically for your desires. 👑 Meet Your Hosts & Educators Our world-class team of facilitators is here to guide your journey: House of Black & More, Owners & Official Sponsors: Goddess Fae & Devil Trey Flogging & Impact Professional's FlognFlow: Dennis & Melissa McMasons Creations & Dirty Nerdy Couple: Miss AJ & Taylor Dynamic Duo of D/s Power Exchange: Sir & Pet. 🚢 Save the Dates & Anchor Your Spot! Dates: February 13 – February 19, 2027 Location: Onboard the FantaSea Cruise 2027 - Margaritaville Beachcomber Ports: Miami, Belize, & Roatan, Honduras Prepare to drop anchor and abandon your inhibitions. Space for special programming and private sessions is limited—get ready to indulge your desires on the high seas! CLICK -----> BOOK HERE Or scan the QR code to book!